so i was seeing this guy for almost a year just seeing but not exclusive. he has liked me for years and i began liking him just almost a year ago. well long story short i put on weight due to hormones and when he saw me at that point in August last year he told me i needed to get healthy to be his gf. well I've lost 15 pounds since then and could lose 10 more maybe 15 . so i left him because i was sick of him saying wasn't fit enough still and irritated and frustrated. plus none of my friends like that he's like theist me. but should i have just stayed with him or was it good that i left him? because part of me is saying he's really trying to help and cares and another part tells me I'm never gonna be enough for him. how should i know?
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" he's really trying to help and cares"
It might just be the way the story was written, but that is not the conclusion I came to. I feel he is more concerned how it looks on him. What might think if he was with someone who is a little over weight. He's more concerned about himself. Than he is about your health.
But that's just my opinion. I don't know him so I very well could be wrong.
I feel it's best you left him.
The only way you will know for sure is to ask him.1
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