How do you tell a girl to work her flat butt?

My girlfriend has a flat butt, and I'm trying to get her to squat more. She cries and shuts me off whenever I try and encourage her to do it. I told her that I like it how it is, but it can definitely become curvier and exercise is good, and that I'm just giving constructive feedback.. not trying to put her down.
What's the best way to tell a girl to work her butt?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • I like how every one here says that you shouldn't tell a girl to improve because 'dat wil hurt her poo little feewings'.

    It's reasons like this that make not take women seriously some times, due to their sensitivity. The guy explicitly stated how he's NOT trying to bring her down and that he's encouraging and not forcing. You complain that he's insensitive for telling a girl to improve but at the same time heaven forbid a man is skinny or fat because in that case any girlfriend would be the first person to tell him to 'man up and get fit'.
    It IS NOT unreasonable to tell a significant other to improve physically - within the bounds of reason of course. And it should also NOT matter whether it's a woman telling a man to get muscles or a man telling a woman to get a nice butt.

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    • well actions speak louder than words, he's not trying to bring her down but he's ok with her crying every-time he brings the subject up.

      I also disagree. If she had like gained a lot of weight since they met or changed otherwise it'd be different. But it seems like he met her how she is now and she didn't have problem with how she looks but he has. Why can't he just let her be happy?

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    • @Ricky_Bobby ya not really. What he is saying here is that he wants her to change for him. To be more attractive to him. He tried the direct way a few times and it ended with her crying and feeling bad about herself so now he is looking for other ways to get what he wants, which is to change her

    • @Izzy2102 yes. The issue is that he made his girlfriend cry and he thinks the conflict is "it didn't work, how do i ask differently?" when it's really "i acted like a cunt, how do i stop being a cunt?"

What Girls Said 5

  • you don't.
    I mean jeez you sound like the worst boyfriend ever. She cries and yet you keep bringing it up, wtf is wrong with you?

    Also doing squat doesn't guarantee you get a bigger butt

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    • well if a girl cries about having a flat butt, she knows it's not going to change unless she changes it right? so how do you get her to change it? i don't see the harm in exercise?

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    • I feel she is crying because you're an insensitive ass and you keep bringing up the subject. If it bothers you so much find a G/F with an butt you like.

    • @Asker she's not crying cuz her butt is flat. She's crying cuz you're being a fuckface.

  • hmm I think maybe the way you told her might have hurt her feelings...
    I enjoy working out so.. I don't think my boyfriend would ask me to work out. I think most people care a lot about their appearances and if you comment on someone's appearance, it could easily give a new insecurity to a person.. which isn't great. If I were you I'd probably try to work out together... instead of comment on her/his body... :/
    working out together could be fun you know lol

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9AXjvTFrzGk

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  • WTF MAN ARE YOU CRAZY, I would dump you in 3 seconds. Don't ever tell a girl something like that. You are fucking telling her (in her mind) "damn you look horrible, why don't you do something with your body".
    You know what you should be happy to have her, but if it is a fucking problem you shouldn't tell her that way. You should join the gym and tell her that you want her to come with you because you are bored with out her and you can help her excersise, go for hikes etc. If you think Squats will help, I feel sorry for you.

    If she does squats all the time her but will become a square and not that big booty you are looking for. She needs a lot of carbs those days she excersise her butt. Take her on bicycling dates and ask her to join jogging, etc. All excersices

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    • i feel that u also have a flat butt but u are too lazy to wourkout :V

    • Haha why do you think so, I just think it is so rude to tell a girl like that. And no I don't have a flat butt at all, lol

  • Tbh id like my man to tell me if am getting fat, or bum is going flat. If I don't look good in something am wearing or the hair make up bad etc .. Its better then them not saying anything... If my partner allowed me to look a certain way were it wasn't a good look and I went out house and he never said notthing I wouldn't off been happy!

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  • Tbh, if a girl has a flat ass, squats won't transform it into "dat ass." It'll just be small and pure muscle, like an athletic guys.

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What Guys Said 9

  • You've got to be careful about that kind of stuff. Girls will take it very personal and over react if you bring up the fact she should do squats more. Sounds like you've already let her know you aren't happy with her butt.

    The subtlest way to do it would've been to ask her to go to the gym with you more and introduce her to some excercises that focus on the butt you could do together.

    If you aren't happy with the way she looks, move on to someone else instead of breaking down her self esteem.

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  • I would probably frame it as a positive activity for both of you. You could make it a gym date where you both do squats and that kind of thing. Making it an activity for both of you will probably have her interpret it as "hey I like you baby, I want to spend time with you" instead of "you're not sexy enough, change yourself".

    Just make sure to approach it in a sincere way and remember that changing people can often be very difficult (and not always a good thing).

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  • Do you have a body of a Greek god yourself?

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  • dude... if she doesn't want to, you can't force her... you know...

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  • I hope you are not forcing the poor lass to be doing it, if some one wants to do something they will but if they dont the best you can do is try to convince her to do it.

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  • Um you don't. You let her do what she wants if her lifestyle and body type has no health risks. And if it's truly important then find someone else so she can be with someone who doesn't make her feel shitty

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  • I am not sure a girl can substaintially change the shape of a flat butt to round. It is what it is. Inhave had women with flat butts but in bed it feels great so I didint really care.

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  • No way, you shouldn't treat a girl like an object, she would most likely look better but let he decide that not you,

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  • Comment on "your" flat ass and how you want to start doing said squats to improve it.

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