I have gone on a few dates with this guy. At first it was kind of exciting because of how new it all was. But.. i don't feel any chemistry or any real connection. I have tried the 'Bitch' approach and not replied to his messages. But that just ended up with him sending me a long message about how he wants to get to know me more and that he likes me. Honestly he's a nice guy and i would like to be friends.. but i don't know how to do it.
How do I let him down?
What Guys Said 1
Typical example of friend zoning the nice guy because he's not "your type" or "interesting enough". Sure why not, i'll tell you how to let him down easy, then i'll wait till you come back with a question stating how to get the attention of some guy that flirts with everything in a skirt, or how to get over being cheated on. Do you want me to go ahead?0
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What Girls Said 1
It's normal not to feel a connection with someone even if there isn't really anything "wrong" with them. You're not going to feel a connection with every person you date and that's fine! I think just being upfront and honest with him will be the best thing to do. Just say to him that you feel that maybe the two of you are better off as friends. :)1
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