Okay I need some help so I'm not in any relationship, I been dating here and there talk to guys. I recently been talking to one and we finally set a date for Valentine's to go out for the first time. But someone I had once briefly talked to never dated had texted me which was purely because he got a new phone and was asking all his contacts if we wanted to keep his # say yes or no. Since I didn't have him in phone I asked who it was. Well eventually he sent a pic I recognized him. We been texting, talking video chatting since but he has fell head over heels for me and as oddly as it sounds I have too. I was straight forward from the beginning that I had a date just dinner for Valentine's. Because I'm a lady of my word and can't do that to someone just blow them off. He doesn't understand that I want him. He thinks I'm playing a game and I'm not just I can't be that person to give someone my word and then u know blow them off. I know it will just be a dinner date and nothing will happen. I really want to be with him but he told me bye and that how can I say the things I say and not be his and he isn't no second choice. He won't talk to me. Update the v date was canceled as of yesterday morning that same morning the guy that won't talk to me called to tell me happy Valentine's day and I hope I live an happy life and we got into it because he says u rather go out on this date and see how it goes instead of being mine and it goes on. He hangs up and of course ruined my morning all I could think about was him and so the date got canceled and I text the guy apparently I'm crazy about to let him know I couldn't do it if it means losing you it's not worth it. I want you in my life and I want you to be my valentine. I told him I canceled and if I was going on any date I wanted it to be with him. All day nothing finally he tells me you already lost and please stop:( I canceled to be with him to be his and now he won't reply to me... Help I want him! how to win him back?
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