I don't understand! I'm pretty or I get hit on a lot and told I'm pretty. I feel like I have a pretty cool personality, I've only been called "crazy" by two ex bf's and both of them were physically abusive so, I'm fairly positive their opinions don't count lol. I'm smart/witty, can hold a job, have a car and pay for all of my own things (like an adult should, but some people get confused). I am super sweet and I make an effort to think about the other persons needs before they have to tell me. I do not understand why I am having such trouble finding a bf who is not a real piece of work, I would like some insight?
Why is it so hard to get a GOOD boyfriend?
What Guys Said 7
"Good" is in the eye of the beholder only. what you are looking for is compatibility. A guy with a ton of piercings and a split tongue may be "good" for one girl and bad for another.
Also, its the same problem on the other side of the river too. Its very hard to find a decent (i won't use "good", thats naive thinking) girlfriend these days.
To me it all bottles down to compatibility and people always looking for 100% match... they list all the positive qualities and look for people with that only. Forgetting that they haven't listed qualities that are bad or tolerable. When those unlisted qualities show up, they start asking why there aren't any good people out there...(see what i did there? :) )0
Look no further. I'm wondering why it's so hard to find a GOOD girlfriend.1
We all have our struggles. I, for instance, struggle to get dimes to lavish me with attention. It's a hard knock life all around.0
cuz there is no perfect bf just in the movies so stop waisting ur time0
The good boyfriends are either taken, or overlooked. If you're lucky an attractive good boyfriend will come but they are usually in high demand. Then there's the average guys who would be good but are overlooked. Then there's the bad ones who women try to change but get fucked over. The dating world sucks, huh?0
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