I'm starting feel like it's all a bit pointless. I'm not particularly attractive, I am slim which is obviously a major turn off to girls because what women really want is someone who's got a muscular physique, that's the most important thing. From my experience with female friends, The women who claim they don't want that just don't feel good enough about themselves to go for that so just settle for someone without a very good physique. I don't really want someone to settle for me but that's the reality of situation, I don't have much hope. The little chance I do have is just because I seem more attainable than a super-hot guy who any woman would rather be with.
Am I right or am I wrong?
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Well, I would tell you that confidence is the sexiest trait a man can have. If you feel down and out about finding love, women are going to pick up on that. You can also try increasing your "like ability" by doing things that most other guys (except the really great ones) wouldn't do. Bring unexpected flowers, surprise her by cooking dinner, etc. and no woman is worth your time if all she is focused on is looks. While they're a nice bonus for a person, at the end of the day it's the personality and characteristic traits that make a man.1