I was in a long distance relationship (about 800 miles apart) for a few months. I was concerned that my girlfriend kept her "Facebook" status as "single" and had a provocative photo posted on her page. Anyway, she is very hot looking and she seems to enjoy the attention. Earlier this week I took some time off work and drove to her place. We enjoyed a nice couple days, we went shopping where I spent lavishly on her. Anyway, the last night I was staying with her, her cell phone text message signal kept going off, while we were in her living room. When we moved to the bedroom for some intimate time, I could her the phone continue to go off announcing text messages. Then, when we returned to the living room she picked up the phone and returned some text messages (at that point I didn't eavesdrop, I let her have her privacy -- she just said it was a guy she worked with and they were "just chatting.")
Well, she went to bed before I did and curiousity got the best of me. I picked up her phone and scrolled through her conversation and found they were flirting with each other and actually setting up a date. One of the guys messages indicated "Get rid of him!" (meaning me) "cuz I want to come over"
She replied "I wish I could, but not till tomorrow"
With that, I packed up my bags and loaded the car (it was about midnight). As she continued to sleep, I took her cell phone and texted a reply to this guy saying "I got rid of him, come on over, knock loudly" then I placed the cell phone on the night stand next to her bed, left the house, got in my car, and drove away.
I hope she was awakened by this horny guy knocking, then, thinking I would still be in the house, maybe panicked a little bit. I hope this provided me a little revenge on her little scheme. Was I right or wrong to spy on her like that and peak at her text messages? Finding out about this text conversation helped me to end the relationship right there before any more heartache (not to mention financial loss) was to occur.
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This is classic! I think you had every right to check her text messages. She was your girlfriend and her behavior was dispicable. You deserved to know the truth. In addition, I also agree with hippy, if she was honest then she should have nothing to hide.
Fabulous exit plan you carried out! It was sheer genius and very classic! You deserve better.0