We were seeing each other somewhat exclusively for 6 months then due to family problems he didn't talk to me often then it fades away until we don't talk to each other at all. It has been 5 months since that day. Suddenly on Valentine's he text me saying "Sorry I've been so distant lately..." then ask how am I doing etc. What's going on? I still have feelings for this guy what do I do now?
My ex-date suddenly text me after 5 months of barely contact?
What Guys Said 1
You guys exclusive? that doesn't sound it. Did you both agree that you were in a relationship Verbally and not assumed? If that is so 5months of not seeing each other and not talking is ridiculous EVEN with family problems, people have all sorts of problems and still are able to make a call or make time for the person in their life thus this should be considered very suspicious. my advice to you is to tread lightly because this is a very unconventional situation.0
What Girls Said 1
It sounds with 'Valentine's' he also is Sentimental and had thoughts of you With-------It has been 5 months since that day. And perhaps with the 'Fades away' he has also been thinking it over that he is Missing the Kissing and may want to renew a few memories down Memory Lane.
Don't be so quick to wear your own heart on your sleeve right now here, dear. If things went sour a Month of Mondays ago, he could have this track record of letting history repeating itself, and even if the next time it might not be 'Family problems' to throw a monkey wrench into things, it could be some other monkey business he might toss your way.
For now, go slow with the flow. I do believe everyone deserves a second chance but for now, don't rush into anything, just feel it out. With your own 'Feelings for this guy,' leave your guard up until you know what you are up against, should it end up to be a full circle pattern he is in.
Good luck. xx0
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