I feel like no one likes black girls especially ones that look like me. Unless I put out or don't act ethnic. (If I "act white" then I'm viewed higherl I'm really classy but I like to have fun to. I get put down constantly for my features but see other ethnic woman praised for it which most of them purchased. My outer appearance has nothing to do with my character. And if I hear another fucking black person say they don't date black people. It really upsets me when blacks tear each other apart and praise others. It's getting to the point where I feel resentment towards others because of their own ethnic and what I've been through. I don't want to live my life bitter or racist (because i'm not) but I just don't understand it about myself. Am I making sense? Please help. I think about this every time I see the Kardasians.
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As a fellow black person, it makes my blood boil when I hear other black people saying "I don't date black guys / girls".
It's rather strange to not want to be open, to dating people who have shared a common life experience and cultural traits.
I can't stand self haters. They need to break the chains of mental slavery in their brains. :-(4