I'm 14 and he's 16. He' really nice and makes me feel amazing, we text everyday for hours and we hug and talk in the halls. We text on the weekends, but not as much because he works with his dad on the weekend and our school is really rigorous and assigns bucket loads of homework.
I know a lot about from his favorite color and movies to his family dynamics and to what he's going to do after high school. He asks a lot about me too. It's been two months and I'm starting to wonder when he's going to ask me out.
He said he likes me and it's apparent he does when we see each other in person. I told him I liked him too.
He even talks about what we should do when we date and he talks about us in the future. I asked him "so if you're talking about the future, when are we actually going to go out?" and he said he wants to know me completely.
Should I expect him to ever ask me out?
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Lots of guys are afraid. And many are also really unsure as to what they are getting themselves into. Basically, he wants to get to know you more- and this could be good because you two will be so comfortable with each other by the time you date. This could also be bad because dating you could not even be in his book. I once knew a guy... And I kept reading your question because it sounds exactly like my old situation. He liked me and I liked him and we always spoke and texted. One day, we both kind of stopped talking due to business, confusion, and mixed signals. Does he have a lot of other "close female friends"? Because if he does you need to keep an eye, some guys like to have multiple backups if one doesn't work. Anyways, we slowly faded away when there was so much. If you truly have feelings for him, do. Not. Let. This. Happen. To. You. Because it could happen so easily without you even noticing due to busy homework schedules and everything. To directly answer your question:
No, you should not expect him to ask you out. Don't get your hopes up unless you give him solid reasons for him to ask you out. Give him compliments. Talk more. Become even more close. Flirt- flirt- flirt!! Just be your natural self- don't change yourself because of what he wants. Don't expect him to ask him out. But what you should do is give him reasons to ask you out. Even make the first move (I know- scary right?) but many guys actually are afraid at first, but once you give them that little push- man they go speeding fast. He could be scared or really anything could be holding him back- and that's what you have to do- you have to get to know him so well that you'll know why he hasn't asked you out. Be yourself. Flirt. Care for him. Don't change yourself and don't get your hopes too high. Just be yourself, as a woman, and work it.0