We went on a first date after a month of texting. It seemed to go really well. We chatted for hours and because of that he missed his train (he lives an hour away). So he crashed at mine. We made out a little bit and got to 3rd base but he said no sex on the first date, which I agreed with. When we woke up it was a little awkward. When he left he leaned in and I didn't know what he was trying to do so I hugged him.
The next day I text to say if had a good time and would like to do it again. He said he'd had fun too and sure hed be up for doing it again. We text a couple more times and then he text me that evening to see how my work was going. The day after we had a little banter and I dropped a hint about meeting up again but he didn't say anything - just kept up the banter so I didn't reply. The next day he didn't text at all. I just text him this morning to ask about a thing I knew he'd had yesterday. He replied saying it seemed to go well. That was it. No questions.
Is he just replying to be polite? Is he trying to brush me off? Can I just ask him to find out where I stand?
- Yes, ask - he's giving mixed signals33% (1)67% (2)50% (3)Vote
- No, don't ask - he's not interested33% (1)0% (0)17% (1)Vote
- Other (please please explain!)34% (1)33% (1)33% (2)Vote