What is your philosophical view point on this topic. Age difference and relationships. I'm currently facing this dilemma. I'm a paramedic. Im 20. I'm on a critical care ambulance 3x a wk and a fulltime student becoming a nurse. I'm "talking " to this guy in my company who's is 15 years older than me. He's turning 35 in a few months. Both of us are paramedics. We both do not have kids. He has a girlfriend, they live together and she is dependent on him but he isn't dependant on her. She lives in his apt etc etc. We talk and flirt and I wanna date him. I'm keeping my distance because of that BUT if they ever break up my big concern is the age difference. We are bboth very smart and mature about almost situation we both had to deal with outside and inside of work and I think we would be a great couple. I just want to see where everyone stands in this. Is a 20 yr old and a 34 years old a drastic age difference?
- Yes. i have an issue with a 15 yr age difference12% (1)20% (2)17% (3)Vote
- No. i do not have an issue with a 15 yr age difference88% (7)80% (8)83% (15)Vote
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I see no logical reason to make dating decision based on age. I have dated girls my age as well as girls 11 years younger than me. Im more concerned about attractions and how well our personalities click than I am with an arbitrary number.
If he leaves his girlfriend for you, how can you be sure he won't leave you for someone else?0