Well, my friend has some back issues and stuff, which basically means that if she were to fall, she would not be able to walk. Anyway, she uses this as a reason not to date, saying that if something happened to her, it would hurt the guy. I totally get that, but I kinda wanna date her. I say kinda because I want to be at the level that one is at with their gf/bf friendship-wise, minus the romance. Any ideas on what I could do? Thanks everybody!!
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A relationship between a guy and a girl without the romance is a friendship. You don't date your friends - you hang out with them! Treat it as if you were hanging out with someone of the same gender.
If you want something closer - to be a brother to her - just be trustworthy and close. If you secretly want something else from her, take her response as a friendly refusal and don't let her future choices compremise the friendship you're looking for.