Since the the ones that do the rejection. Guys usually aproach. Girls don't
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I think girls are shallow because we are kind of trained by the media and society to be overly critical in the way we ourselves look. It's why we spend so much money on skincare, hair care, makeup, clothes etc etc... It's unhealthy and can lead to eating disorders or just an inability to trust yourself and your own opinions on what is important to you. It's too much focus on the image thing basically and that is taught to us by our environment.
For guys it's the same deal, men are visual creatures, hyper sexualised media representations of women, and how they should be treated/viewed. If every song you listen to refers to women as bitches or hos or whatever and ties their worth to their appearance only, it's going to seep in and mess with what you look for in women. It's again this image thing that's sold to us through media.
Like the amount of times i hear guys say things like, men are visual creatures we get turned on so easily we can't help if we cheat. I'm sure everyone is a visual creature that has eyes, after all Magic Mike didn't make so much money for its characterization and complex themes. And if your brain cannot control your behavior and hence your libido, you should seriously consider being checked for a tumor.
Sorry for the rant, but everyone is shallow as fuck in my opinion. Except for Buddhist monks, they cool.0