I have never looked through a boyfriends phone but my last relationship I was engaged and I was cheated on so my current boyfriend left his phone in my car and it kept going off so I looked at it. These girl been texting him and he's been texting them too but I know he's not hanging out with them because he is with me like 24/7 so its really just him talking to them which I'm not ok with and I also saw where he was texting his ex and stuff and I really want us to be together but I don't know if its healthy for me to keep this relationship going with him doing what he does. Should I just cut it off now or what. And guys would u text other girls if you were into the girl your with? I've been with him for 5 months now...
- he dont love meVote A
- he wants attention from othersVote B
- he's actually cheatingVote C
- he's not cheatingVote D
Most Helpful Girl
Where is the you should talk to him about it option?
Also to begin with your relationship doesn't sound healthy. You say you guys are together 24/7 and you have been dating for 5 months you should not be glued to each other you need time apart. Not to mention you went through his phone! To me you sound a little insecure/clingy. Also he has a right to talk with someone of another gender if you say he can't you are just being a controlling gf. He needs space away from you, you cannot provide him with all of his social needs.
It sounds like you guys have a lot to talk about from your insecurities to him talking to other females.3