My ex and I were pretty serious. We were together almost 2 years. Near the end he pulled away. I'm not sure why, I don't think he knows either, but all he can tell me now is that he doesn't love me anymore and he likes the new girl he's been hanging out with since the break up. He said he misses what we had. But I'm thinking obviously not enough.
What I don't get is, if he likes her, if his feelings for her have grown while his feelings for me have faded as he said, why don't they either date or break it off? Right now, they like each other, but won't date mainly because she is very conservative and religious and he isn't, among other things (their work won't allow them, I think they annoy each other sometimes, etc...whatever).
But they still hang out and obviously still have feelings for each other. Why not just either try to date or break it off?
He also told me he thinks he and I were a better match than he and her. But, he probably doesn't really think that.
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It sounds like this "new girl" is imaginary to me.. Not dating, she's religious, he's not, etc and so forth... If if she is real- he's not happy with her, he said so himself!
I think its his business on who he dates, I know your just looking for an answer- but don't let it bug you, let this guy live and speak his peace. You have your peace and your own life to live.
This situation is so cloudy and so many "if-then's" that I wouldn't wanna be a part of it- I would walk away and find someone new.
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