I always do nice things for him and am always thinking about him. I make and/or buy meals. If I'm at a store and see something that I think he'd like, I buy it for him. He does buy me dinner, but he never spontaneously buys me gifts. He did once when we first started dating. Not that I think it's the definitive way to know someone cares for you, but it's nice once in a while. However, my biggest issue is that he shows my dog more affection than me. I'm not jealous, but I notice. He will sit right next to me with my dog and kiss multiple times (talking 20 or more) and not even touch me. It's like I don't exist most of the time. If I say something about it, he'll show affection, but it doesn't last long. Is any of this normal? If not, what should I do about it? I wonder if it's a clear sign that he just isn't into me. But, he has told me that he does. He used to text me throughout the day to find out how I am. That only lasted about the first couple of months. Now, I don't ever hear from him unless I text first. I keep telling myself that I need to pull away and start being elusive, but I don't know. I need help :( Any advice or feedback will be more than welcomed!
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The best thing you can do in this situation is telling him what you feel, but you've already said you did it and that it doesn't work permanently. I think that perhaps he's taking you for granted. Well, keep telling him, be more emphatic next time and maybe he'll change, or the change will be more permanent. It can't just stay the way it is.1
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