I turned down someone a year ago when I could have had him. He was actually a sweet innocent man, now he's arrogant. Part of me feels like that good side of him never really went away. he's 20 I'm 25. i usually am not attracted to younger men but holy crap he's hot as hell. So here's the thing, we started talking again on new years and we talked back and forth here and there for a month until we decided to talk again. Part of me thinks I hurt this guy's feelings when I turned him down last year pretty significantly. Because he really was probing me about why I stopped talking to him. However he plays some games with me... he will invite me to hang out with him and then disappear. He did this a few times and i got pissed and asked him why he even started talking to me again. He was the one who initiated contact again, not me. The first time we hung out we were passionately kissing and touching but didn't have sex although the both of us were definitely feeling it... we decided to wait and he stressed that we should so i was down to wait. The second time we hung out he went all the way to a bar where I was and when i saw him he was dancing with another girl. so I was hanging out with my friends doing my own thing and another guy approached me and i didn't turn him down because the guy i liked was doing his own thing. He saw me talking to the other guy, then comes over to us and pulls me aside, while he's really drunk and asks me if he's too young for me again. I brush him off, continue talking with that guy, and we were tense for a couple days after that. we made up and agreed we were insensitive to each other that night. Last night we ended up having (wild) sex and cuddling after he waited up for me to be done partying with my best friend around 5am. I noticed his heart beating really fast when we were cuddling an hour later. Im so confused about how he feels about me? I wonder if he's afraid to tell me for fear I might turn him down again for something more than sex?
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His good looks and the fact you probably do genuinely like him is clouding your judgment. Yes, he's afraid to tell you that he is infatuated with you because you might dump him or reject him again. If you honestly like him, let him know and let him know you don't want to play any games.0