I love my boyfriend with all my heart and I care about him so much. I continue to try to make the relationship work and I put in so much effort. Yet he doesn't seem to feel the same way. He only cares about smoking pot and hanging out with his friends until 4 in the morning. How do I try to make myself not care so much?
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First of all in my opinion you should focus on your future. If he looks like he's not ready to change or take a step into his future then just like you're relationship its not going anywhere but down specially if you want that beautiful home with kids and a good job to go along with it.
If you really want a serious relationship that you will see yourself as happy, succesful and proud to have that man in your arms id suggest that you move on for the sake of your pursuit of happiness.
Now from what it sounds you have a kind heart to be able to look past his current life status and share affection with him. But remember sometimes when we open are hearts too much in the face of danger something more could crawl in and shut it down. All im trying to say is look at your future in order to leave the past behind.
Hope it helps0