So basically I went on a date with this girl and we both had a really good time but she told our mutual friend that she could see me as potentially a great friend but she wasn't attracted. It's fair enough but I am little disappointed obviously because it seemed to go really well.
Obviously I am little dejected but what I am trying not to get upset about is that she didn't like me for my looks. I knew she liked thin guys so I don't really get what is wrong with me. I am really unconfident about how I look because I used to get picked on for it at school so this kind of confirmed what I already thought of myself. If I find a photo of myself I will upload it but I don't keep any on my laptop.
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My best comfort is that often physical attraction is just one part of overall attraction. I mean, I've fallen for guys before who according to others weren't physically attractive but yet for me they were cause they just had something and I saw something in them that others didn't. The same applies to you. Just cause this girl didn't see overall attraction with you doesn't mean no one else will! I've also been rejected for guys lacking attraction and overall chemistry with me and you shouldn't let it get you down. You can't be attractive to everyone out there. Besides attraction is not everything too. As I say, there are many factors that determine overall attraction. Beauty is also highly highly subjective. One person will love your appearance, another won't. That's why the dating game is a very tough game and you need to know that a few people rejecting you doesn't define you. You have to go through many people often to get to the right one :)3