A lot of dating articles state generally state that if a person isn't taking initiative to interact with you, keep things going, return phone calls/texts/etc. then they're not interested. So then that leaves the question - is a person who is shy/playing hard to get really interested in you to begin with or is it just a passing phase where by they may have some feelings for you but in reality they're not fully committed?
Is there actually a thing as playing hard to get or shy people in the dating scene?
What Girls Said 1
In my opinion, playing hard to get is most common in the process of flirtation, and getting the guy's attention, but not usually in the dating scenario. If she/he wasn't returning your phone calls/texts/whatever else, and you were already dating, then that could be a sure sign she/he isn't interested. But to be sure, you could always text him/her and instead of saying "hey" text with a "purpose". Like, ask an important question, such as if you're in college together, when's the exam, or what books you needed to buy. You could also try texting him/her a question about them, or at least something that would get them interested, and motivated to answer.0
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