So there is this guy, we have been friends a long time and have quite the history together. He send a lot of mixed signals and it doesn't help that we have only been talking through text since we live 4.5 hours apart now. He will be really chatty for a day, 2 days and then it dies down he stops responding and so forth and then if I so much as just say hey he doesn't answer... yet if I don't bother with him for a 2 or more days he messeges me and it's become a pattern... when I've asked him why he does that he says that he needs space and even when he dates someone he doesn't talk to them that much and that texting someone everyday just pushes them away, can I get a guys take on this?
Guys and texting... can I get a guys opinion here?
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I'm in a similar situation. Not sure if she's losing interest or just really busy with med school. When we talk, we'll talk until one of us is forced to go, but sometimes she doesn't check in for days. I don't want to be leaving messages piled up, but I don't want to go too far in the other direction and leave her thinking *I* lost interest.0
for me texting and calling is like a hell. I don't like it, I don't know how much to use it, should I call and so on. I prefer face to face.4
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