Just.. you get it. Girls how would you ask and guys how would you react?
Most Helpful Girl
I just tell him straight up and I expect him to do the same thing. Sure, it's awkward at first, but you have to force yourselves to be comfortable at first before it becomes second nature to tell him what you want in bed.
Or, you could just take it into your own hands and do what you want to him to show him the ropes before he takes over3