I was recently dating this girl for a good 3/4 months.
So far, everything was good, she made me laugh, she was drop dead gorgeous, and all in all I was getting particularly fond of her. However, a month before we started seeing each other she had just broken up with her boyfriend of 2 years.
Naturally I didn't try to pressure her to start being exclusive again, but I thought that we had connected well. Well, after a calm date to the dog park with our pets, I dropped her off and went to work.
She then COMPLETLEY disappeared for over a month.
Worried about what happened to her, I sent her a couple texts but no response. About 2 months after I forgot about it, only to find out that she got back with her ex boyfriend and didn't think it was necessary to let me know? Im not sure if this is a normal thing in the USA, but where I grew up this is a total no no.
So I did what most people (I assume) would do in this situation- Called her an asshole and deleted her number. Why do people lack the sense of genuine maturity and honesty? This is something that has convinced me to not date anymore.
Let me know what you think in the comments!
Most Helpful Guy
This is how it goes, man.
One moment it's going great, the next moment they decide they don't want to see you any more and you are LUCKY if you get a text saying as much.
Don't blame all the other girls from what this one girl did, and don't be put off dating - wasn't it awesome and totally worth being with her up until this happened? It's those good times that make it all worth it!
(here's an advice animal meme: Complains about people lacking maturity. Calls girl an asshole as a parting snipe)0