I was asked out by this girl I've been getting to know down the pub recently. I turned her down because I am 11 years older than her. I've just 31 she will be 20 next month.
She's very pretty and we do get on really well. My mate keeps telling me to go for it. I'd be lying if I said I wasn't at least tempted. Would the age gap be wrong?
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Go for it, but be wary of signs of immaturity. She might not know exactly what she wants and the next few years could completely change her mindset.
Some girls are into dating much older guys. One way to tell is if her parents have a significant age gap between them. It's not a perfect indicator of overall success with wide age gaps, but at least you know she understands the difference and believes it can work. In my experience it holds true. Take it for what it's worth.0