My boyfriends having a birthday party tomorrow and he's having it at a local hotel near me. He wants me to spend the night, but my parents obviously won't let me. I'm 19 years old and my boyfriend just turned 22. I'm very mature for my age, I have a job, I go to college, I also drive my brother and sister to their sport practices and take my aunt and pick her up from work. My parents don't trust me at all, yes, I've made mistakes were they haven't trusted me, but that was when I was 15,16,17 years old. I have never done anything sneaky for them to not trust me. They don't even trust me enough to say I'm going to the mall for a couple hours. They always think I'm doing something behind their backs. I'm super excited for my boyfriends party because I never get the chance to go out because of how busy I am and my parents know that. I want to be able to spend the night with my boyfriend without my parents thinking the worst. I told them I was spending the night at, a friends house only because I, know they would say no to my boyfriend, I know its wrong, but I never get a chance to see him so much and my mother wouldn't even let me visit him for his actual birthday today.(my car is in the shop, she wouldn't let me borrow her car) so since she doesn't believe me she said she's gonna drive by my friends house to see if my car is parked there and if it's not then she's gonna take it away from me. (I get my car back tomorrow) Since I'm gonna be at the hotel, my car obviously isn't going to be at her house and I don't know what to do. I wanna be able to spend time with my boyfriend, but if she's gonna check to see if my car is at my friends house then I'm screwed. Any advice please? I know this is disobeying her trust, but I feel that I'm mature enough to realize the desicion I'm making. I feel like I'm trapped. Please help me? *no matter what I say she won't agree to me spending the night*
How can I spend the night with my boyfriend without my parents knowing?
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