I know it is stupid, because it happened before me and maybe she had a bad experience so I am not angry on purpose, but I can't help but feel like she doesn't trust me and I am paying for other guys mistakes... I am not mean about it and don't bring it up at all, but am I wrong to just feel this way?
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I get why it might feel that way to you, but you've got to understand that it's nothing personal. She probably regrets sending nudes to other guys and doesn't want to make that mistake again. Please do not hold it against her or pressure her to.
I made the mistake once of making a video with my BF at the time. We were head over heels in love, even talking about getting married some day.. I trusted him completely (otherwise I wouldn't have made the video, obviously). Then, as things went sour with us and he started to go off the deep end mentally, he began to blackmail me with it and threatened to destroy my life y releasing it on the internet. I lived in fear for years after we broke up that it would one day surface and my career, my reputation, would all be over. I vowed to myself that I would never do that again, no matter how much I trusted the man. It makes me sad, because I would really like to share that kind of experience with a man I love one day - it's exhilarating and sexy - but it's just not worth the risk :(0
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