If you knew a girl from school who was funny, sweet, and pretty (the only thing was that she was overweight). She transferred to a different school for a year, and then came back for the next and she lost all the weight, and had a great body with all the right curves, and her face is even prettier.
Would you go out with her then or would you only be able to think about when she was fat? Would you be distracted by how much others are talking about how much weight she's lost? Why/Why not.
Any info is good :) be honest.
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What difference does it make? The past is the past, she's not fat now. Some people like it when you compliment on their weight loss, if she's the loud and proud type, she'd definitely want you to, but if she doesn't want to be reminded of how she was over weight I'd suggest maybe a subtle hint (?). It could be offensive to someone of you're like "Man! You look great now!", she'd be thinking, what, didn't I look okay before?
If it was me, I wouldn't care at all, after all, she'd be different now. It's not easy to ignore the gossip, especially if you're a girl, but I'd think that if you really like her, you'd be able to move past the fact that people are talking, after all, it's not their opinion that matters.
Looking back into the past might not be a good thing, and it might be a turn off, but come on, if you look at her now, you definitely don't think fat girl, you think that she's beautiful. So forget about what she was, and focus on who she is now.
I'm not sure if this was helpful, but, I tried my best.0