So I wouldn't say me an this guy are talkin. But he hits me up everyday all we have done is kissed and had innocent sleepovers my house. Well im away for a couple weeks and i asked him to come chill before i go. He said no at first which i was confused. Then finally the next day he came over which he was still hesitent we had a really good night. We Cuddle we talked looked a pics an videos of his 2 yr old son. When we laid down i kissed him an he never kissed me back. When we first kissed he grabbed me an kissed me. ? Well the next day he sent me a text thanking me for cuddleing with him an it meant more to him then i know. He has been really depressed because he got kicked out of where he was staying at. Aand he has a bit baby mama drama. so im confused does this dude like me or was he just oddly using me for simple comfort?
Thanking me for cuddling with him? wtf?
What Guys Said 2
He likes you and he is right.
This ment way more to him then you realised, he is really thankful for how you made him feel.
I would say its a very good sign.1
His hesitations could be related to having been depressed... you know, when you're really emotional it's difficult to be spontaneous or make good decisions.
So honestly, I think the "thank you" means a lot more than the confusion.
Also the fact he hesitated but came anyway, with his kid, means a lot.
I'd give it time. Help him vent some emotion and find his confidence back, and you'll at least have yourself a good friend. Or more...0
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