I'm 25, I've never had a girlfriend, never had sex, never been kissed. I get so down and depressed about it that I have cried over it and sometimes I wish I was dead.
I'm extremely shy (before you go on and one about how girls like confidence... I know that, but it's harder said than done, especially when you've been told by girls all my life they only ever see me as a friend). No woman has ever shown any romantic interest in me, at all. I've tried to ask girls out but I can't flirt and I get extremely shy and they have all rejected me. I get so angry and frustrated that I've just given up. Girls just don't like me.
Why is it that ugly guys with no future and treat their women like crap can have girls at their beck and call while I get the shaft and no girl ever wants anything to do with me. I feel like a freak.
Not to mention, 99% of girls want a guy who is experienced and has had sex before, I haven't even been kissed. They will consider it "weird", a "turn-off" or instant "friend-zone" and I know for a fact if I was to be in a relationship and I was to tell a girl I have never been intimate with a girl, she will run a mile.
Should I just go and kill myself? Become a priest and live a life of celibacy? Give up? Get a escort?
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Don't wish stuff like that. Go out and meet people an socialize with people, open your mouth and talk that's why you have one so you can interact well with people. you just haven't found the right person yet but you will someday. There's someone out there for everybody. I don't think being a virgin at 25 is a turn off at all, I am 18 and I am a virgin. So what if they say its weird or a turn off, ignore them don't listen to people. Don't live life trying to please everyone. Don't kill yourself that's stupid, and don't' give up. Go out and meet people, go to a bar or something and socialize with people. She isn't just going to fall out of the sky, you have to put yourself OUT THERE.0