I started seeing this guy, his really amazing to me. I've loved all the time I've spent with him but well now I feel like we have run out of things to do together and talk about, I still want to be interesting and make this interesting. I wanna come up with amazing ideas to do with him but I need help? Also last time we hung out it was the biggest dissapointment because everything we planned didn't turn out and we ended up just going back to his like we always do now. I ended up calling him boring. I guess I just felt he would say the same about me, I regret saying it. Also I have no idea why but I started making fun of him (in a fun way) but I think maybe he took it all too seriously (Now I look back I probably would have too) and I also had said one bad comment about someone else, and I feel horrible because I don't want to seem like that at all, talking bad about others and being judgmental. I'm not near like that ever, I guess it was a one off and I let it slip :/ I've also seemed a little cold at times because I am scared of relationships. We haven't talked since that day, should I message him and say I didn't mean those comments? Also that day we decided to make our relationship public on social media and someone he used to like commented and he got embarrassed and deleted it... I need advice? He makes me extremely happy and I want to do the same for him, I wanna make this work?
How to make this work?
What Guys Said 1
if u know he meant something to you and u think u did something wrong, i think it's alright to take the initiative and tell him that u r sorry. sometimes, girls taking initiative can make the guys realize that u like him enough to do so. Also, if u r afraid of saying the wrong comments again, next time dont give quick respond, take a minute and think. And when u get used to it, u will not slip out ur thoughts that easily :)1
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What Girls Said 1
Contact him, ask him for dinner and explain your feelings to him. Apologize for making fun of him and tell him you are serious about him. Sometimes you just have to be completely honest in certain situations and this is definitely one of them. Hiding your feelings and intentions now will only make him think you're not interested. If you're running out things to say/do then it's also a good indication that you might have been spending too much time together prior. There must be space for you two to miss each other and spend time on your own. This helps freshen both of you up and can mean more interesting conversations about what you got up to while you were away.0
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