I didn't. I was so in love with my gf i didn't think about anyone else. But as soon as we called it quits, she goes back to an old boyfriend. Makes me feel like i should have had someone lined up, because now im sad over losing her, while she with some other guy. It feels pathetic.
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When people have back up plans, it says more about them than it does you. Trust me.
Girls/guys like this don't even need to like the rebound, but they're so weak and insecure that they are afraid of being alone, or suffering the pain of a breakup.
I wouldn't take it personally, because she's prob had these issues before you came along... and I wouldn't be attracted to someone who NEEDS to have someone their or else they feel uncomfortable. You never truly know if they're with you because they love you, or because they're too scared to be alone.
Find someone stronger. Someone who didn't need to be in a relationship, but she couldn't help it but to be with you because the connection was that great between you two.0