This boy, we'll call him Clark, was my best friend from the moment we met. We talked for hours online but in school he was always a little shyer. Long story short I kinda like him but he liked my friend so I helped Clark try to get her but in the end they didn't get together. We started talking less and he ignored me in the halls but we still chatted online. Clark became more distant online but I always helped him with his school work when he needed it and he could vent with me. We just stopped talking over time and one day he chatted online "wow _____ it's been forever" and I lost it. It hadn't been forever and he had ignored me when I had tried to make an effort. I told him I wanted a real friend not an online chat buddy. I ended it but I wanted to see if he showed any significant caring. He didn't and never even responded to my anger. That was a little before Thanksgiving. We stopped talking but everyother day he takes the long way to walk by my locker. I miss him really bad, but he didn't even care when I left. I wanted him to reach out this time. What should I do? Talk to him? Reach out?
What to do about my shy boy quiet friend who I'm in a fight with?
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Definitely reach out in person. Let him know your not mad. I'm in a little tet à tet with a friend of mine too, and honestly, I can say, if you miss him, it's the best thing to do since he's shy. You probably shook him up a bit with what you said online. So yeah I'd say maybe ask him to talk about things outside of school. In person.1
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