Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 8 months. We was so happy and loveable blah blah. Every time I call him it seems like I am bothering him or getting on his nerves. He says I have shit to do I need to get a shower and do this blah blah. I don't call him that much. Even when i text him he gives me short answers. I get annoyed and ask him why does it take you so long to text back. He says I was cleaning or doing this. Which I know he takes his phone with him everywhere. Always in his pocket. He has a group chat with friends that he's always on texting for hours. I asked him what is it do you not like me anymore? Do you not want to be with me? Do you not like talking to me? He says yes I want to be with you and and when did I say I didn't want to be with you. I think he cares but can't understand why I am on the back burner.
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There's a big difference between being physically clingy and being virtually clingy. What I mean by virtually clingy is by texting him constantly and asking what he's doing, why didn't he respond to your text, and asking him how it takes so long to respond to your text, etc. It drives me up the wall when a girl does this to me.
I'd highly advise you to give him space. Be more laid back about talking to him. Just because he didn't respond to your text instantly, isn't a big deal. The reason for a relationship is to be happy and relaxing, not necessarily meaning constantly texting/talking. Just give him some space.1