This girl just basically told me that she wants to date.
The neighbor girl down the hall from me, whom I've been trying to get with for awhile... pretty much basically confirmed she likes me tonight.
After going through this whole game of me trying to figure out if she does or not... she came over today to use the computer due to extenuating circumstances (she wanted to fill out some job applications). After she was almost done, I started talking to her basically about how "I guess we'll just be friends from now on" and asking her if she had any tips for any other girls I tried to ask out in the future.
She said that she likes it when a guy just goes for it, and told me about "some guy" she knew in high school that she really liked but she didn't just feel comfortable telling him she really liked him that quickly. Then she went on to basically say that "if I like a girl I should just ask her out sometime"... taking this as an insanely heavy signal that even I couldn't miss, but still couldn't be sure about, I went out on a limb and asked her to go out sometime and she said "yes".
Just before she headed out, I got her cell phone number. When's the soonest I should text her or any of that? Should I start flirting more now? I'm still unsure of how much flirting would be okay honestly
If it were up to me, we'd just go through the whole puppy love thing and get it out of the way, but I'm just confused about what she wants. She seems interested in some things, but other times... Whenever I look at her she looks at me and smiles but I don't know if it's a "stop looking at me smile" or like u
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If you just finished talking to her that day wait a day to text her. Also go easy on the flirting at the start. From what you have told me about her it sounds like she would be uncomfortable with heavy flirting from the very start. Wait til you are more comfortable with each other before you start flirting otherwise it could come off like you just want a piece of ass.
by the way good for you max I am happy for you!1