I work construction (yes I am a female) and he works finance, we meet when I was working as a shot girl in a stip club a job which I left because it made him uncomfortable. We been on an off for the pass year/ year and a half. We go out to dinner to play bowling etc and we always have crazy sex together, we get high and just watch movies and have fun. Here is my problem I like him more than just a friends with benefits I'm starting to get feelings and want more, this has happen once before so I told him I needed some space and didn't spoke to him for almost 6 months on which I saw and dated another guy but i always come back to him, no other guy can satisfy me now and well im afraid that if I open my mouth and say something touchy feeling he will pull away (side note when we meet I just told him I wanted to have sex with him and thats it so he knows I'm not one to be all romantic and cheesy, in fact I kinda hate romantic stuff) so how do I go from here. He hasn't meet my friends and I haven't meet his, after all he could be my father I know my family and friends won't approve, but I want to take this from having sex and hanging out to a little more ( I'm not planning on marrying or having children) but I would like to meet his friends and for him to meet mine.
Sorry if I ramble
- walk away25% (1)60% (3)44% (4)Vote
- tell him how i feel75% (3)40% (2)56% (5)Vote