I went on a first date on Friday (2/27), and it is now mid day Tuesday (3/3), but he has yet set up a 2nd date. If he continues to make conversation with me over text, should I just ignore him and write him off?
Background: We met over coffee and bagel dating app, it took him over 2 weeks to ask me out on the first date. He said he had a great time with me (we talked until restaurant nearly kicked us out), but I didn't feel like he enjoyed spending time with me, he didn't smile much and was very serious the whole time. It was an awkward date, at least for me. I like that he seems intellectual and reserved, cause I am pretty conservative, so wouldn't mind going on a 2nd date to see if we could be more relaxed and at ease with each other, but I don't want to waste time on someone that doesn't like me enough...
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So it's been about a week since date #1 occurred if I read it correctly. It's not uncommon for a reserved guy as you described him as to not immediately ask someone out again. He may be waiting to get a read on how or what you did or didn't get from the date. I didn't find much from what you said that made me feel you enjoyed this date and maybe he didn't either , if he feels this way he may feel he would be turned down if he asked again. If you would like to try a second date , at least let him know that your open to it should he want to. Don't close a door too early especially if you may want in. Just my thoughts0