Hi I started talking to this girl online about 5 months ago and we haven't met yet but we know where each other live and I know her whole life I didn't like her that much but I do now. She even said she wants us to be exclusive. An the last guy she was with was controlling and verbally and physically abusive in a 4 year relationship. I sent her flowers to her job to be romantic she liked them. She always said her previous guys were crappy guys and I wasn't texting her that much so I thiught I needed to do more so I kept asking her about our situation validation for her sake so she knew where we stood. I only did it cuz I thought that's what she wanted. So now she said she feels smothered an that I need to back off some cuz it's making her shut down. I really am not that overbearing guy and I want to be with her and I honestly thought I was doing the right thing so please tell me what I need to do to fix what I messed up
How do I fix what I did?
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Tell her just as you told us in this post.
I think once she understands where you are coming from, it truly could change her perspective.0
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