Do guys ever think about girls as much as we do about guys?

I mean either during the initial stages of a relationship or during, or after a break up. Girls sometimes go in over-drive thinking about a guy and build castles in the sky or about what ifs. Do guys ever do it? They seem to avoid such things..


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  • Depends on the type of guy. If he is capable of getting tons of girls, he probably will move on fast. If he's not such a player, he'd probably care more. That's just the truth.

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    • Fair point, it also depends on the relationship of course. I meant when things seem perfect and we go through a tough break up. It just seems like guys move on faster, even during a relationship.. they seem to be able to distance themselves more so I wonder if they really spend that amount of thinking of a girl

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    • Yes haha! I agree with that, I also think guys don't fall for a girl as easily. So when they think about someone, they really go for it.. rest is all the bs that this website seems to run on :P

    • Guys do fall for girls, but only certain types. If that type comes around we can fall for her quick.

What Guys Said 7

  • pretty sure that thought/feeling goes both ways. in every given circumstance. generally.

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  • I've had crushes where it's constant. I have to make an active effort not to think about crushes too much. Avoiding such things is good.

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  • yes, totally ^^ especially, when i´m crushing.

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    • Yeh, you also have the person in the back of your mind, even while you're doing other things?

    • every single minute of the day xD i think this is why it´s called a "crush" because it crushes your thoughts ^^

  • I use to but I don't have time for that type of stuff anymore.

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  • How are we supposed to know how much you think.

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    • Haha well, my most recent memory is of my break-up. I still hold on to our memories a little more and I still think of him. It doesn't necessarily seem like he does, which is why I wondered since he was even more invested than I was before but he was also the one to end it due to other circumstances

    • I guess it changes with dynamics of the relationship and the types of people in it.

  • sure we do. my last gf is on my mind whenever I'm not busy and I hate it

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    • Who broke with who?

    • I did. it was so good but so bad at the same time. I miss the good though!! lol

    • Thats what my ex said, he also left. He said "why do you remember everything? Remember the good and let it go"... uff haha

  • we definitely do

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What Girls Said 1

  • Not even half of it

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