We need to be honest with ourselves, there some people you have no chance with dating. I'm average at best, I realized I don't have a chance with the "hot and sexy" Women. My ceiling is probably "cute". Why can't other people realize this?
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Its more likely for a guy to date someone "out of his league" than it is for a girl to date someone "out of her league". Girls are less visual than guys. Less picky i guess. But haven't you ever experienced seeing a girl that you rated a 6 or a 7, but once you find out she has an amazing personality, she all of the sudden got bumped up to an 8? Other things besides looks play into the different "leagues", there are certain things about a person that can knock them up to another league because it makes up for something that they lack. So yes leagues do exist, but you can get bumped up to a new leavue by being wealthy, succesful, strong, caring etc. even i your looks say that you don't belong in that league. For instance, girls usually rate me a 7 and an occasional 8, which i am perfectly fine with, but once they get to know me they absolutely adore me because of how nice and caring i am. Maybe my kindness bumps me up to a solid 8? I don't know for sure, all ik is that it usually helps me to win the attention of girls who normally would be "out of my league" slightly or even way outta my league.1