This guy was trying hard do that we can see each other in person after we have met through mutual friends. I am so insecure of myself and long distance thing. I didn't want to go on. I still kept talking to him though. I wanted him to be patience and make me beleive in him. He gave up on me and started saying I need a space then had a major fight. He told me that how the whole thing won't be working and I agreed. He then texted me and I called him back. He didn't want no confrontation, no long chat and said he just text me because I crossed his mind and want to be friends. He said he want to sleep and will call me the next say which he didn't. I am so confused. What is on hisind really. I wish that I am so optimist and see it working. I wish we were close. I still want him to fight for me.
What happens when a man stops chasing a woman? I still want him to fight for me?
What Guys Said 6
i guess he lost interest2
You 2 obviously like each other but want different things so it's likely doomed to failure. You want him to do all the work and he wants someone to share in the work that it takes to make a relationship. Perhaps something like a sugar daddy relationship would work better for you?0
I lol'd when I read the question.
What makes you think you're worthy enough to fight for you?0
fight for you? who will he fight? you? that's sexual harrasment, iirc.1
GUYS SHOULDN'T CHASE WOMEN - Remember.
Yes Boys chase girls not Womens.
If you don't chase him, no thanks just another girl with big EGO.0
What Girls Said 2
I think he's moved on if he's not even willing to fight for you1
I'd just let him go. Sounds like he is playing you while he looks around for others... keeping you there as a back up just in case he doesn't find someone else. Long distance relationships are hard and if you all two are already having issues, it'll probably just be harder and more complicated. You said you have insecurities about yourself and long distance relationships; having that already isn't going to help either. Find someone closer and let this boy play someone else because obviously he isn't that interested since he gave up... maybe he realized it's too much work for him.0
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