I don't want to sound superficial but I just found out from some guys at my school, that apparently a lot of guys find me attractive. I get flirted with a lot but it never seems to go any further. One of my close guy friends told me it's because I'm intimidating. What does that mean? And how do I become less intimidating? I don't understand how I'm intimidating because honestly I'm nice to everyone. the guy I currently like has been flirting with me, but again it never goes anywhere.
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Let's assume your one of the "pretty people" (since you post anonymous and no picture, there is no way to know). So if your the hot girl that is part of the popular group.. then your going to have this issue through life.
The better looking and hotter the woman, the more most guys will stay clear of her. Except for the shallow moronic "pretty people" men...
the hotter the woman the more high maintenance she usually is and the bitchier she usually is. Obviously there are always exceptions to every rule. but since there is no way to know this, your going to have that assumption on you. No guy wants to deal with that. On top of that, your going to have every guy in the place wanting you, even if they don't go after you. So we will assume your going to throw us out as soon as a hot guy comes in. Why deal with that? I am no brad pitt/george clooney. So lets say I go to a bar or if I am in high school and there is a group of girls (I don't do either but for example purpose). I am going to throw out the hottest and ugliest and work with what is left. usually I will pick the girl that is like 3rd best looking in the group. she is usually the hotest for me.
If they all look like they are out of my league, I just move on and don't bother. nothing like a whole table of bitchy women.
So if your in high school... are you or have you dated the hot 'pretty' guys? captain of the football team? any of the 'popular guys" who of course are the biggest assholes in school. if so, nobody but those guys are going to want you. Plus, since they can also have their pick, even if you date them they will treat you like crap.
You want to be treated like a princess? date a nerd. I was a nerd in school. I dont know what is considered a nerd nowadays though. when I was in school it was anyone into computers and getting good grades. none of the girls are into us so we spent all our time thinking about how good we would treat them if we had them.1