Boyfriend lends money to his married female friend?

She knows his credit card number and uses it for purchases over $100. He says she almost always pays him back within a week, and that he's only helping her because she's a "sister" to him (they are not related) and she has a baby on the way. Would I be unreasonable to ask him why is he helping her and not her husband? My boyfriend and I have known each other for over 5 years and we've been seriously dating for 3 months.


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  • That would be reasonable to ask.

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What Girls Said 3

  • Nope... doesn't seem unreasonable to ask that. This situation seems kind of strange if you ask me... unless she's hiding her financial struggles from her husband - which is not healthy.

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  • Has your boyfriend and his friend ever dated? How long have they known each other? What is your gut telling you?

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  • It sounds like he may be the father and is just trying to keep her at bay with money. I am sorry you are in this situation.

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