WHY IS HE IGNORING ME?
So I met this guy. He's 27 and I'm twenty. we're both persian and we have the world in common. literally, two peas in a pod! We both had similar
(shitty) childhoods which led me to actually reciprocate his feelings for me. He's always the one to text me first. He would always text me good morning and good night and in between when neither of us were busy. we could really hold a conversation because of our similar personalities. Not that i'm stuck on myself or anything but I am attractive. Regardless, i never reciprocate someones feelings for me because I am a shy/distant person. I've only dated one other person for ten months but he cheated on me because i wouldn't do anything with him. this guy is well aware of that and has been the perfect gentlemen and has not made any sexual remarks. at first he told, when we first started talking he told me that i look very kissable and when i told him that he was being gross he literally said "i apologize if that was too much for you"! thats how proper he was. he was very into me and randomly one day when he texts me good morning and that he'll text me later when he gets off work (with a winkyface might i add) he doesn't and its been four days and not a word from him!! i haven't texted him either because that morning he told me he would contact me later that evening, and no he is not dead in a ditch or wherever because this is 2015 and he was logged into social media. i never once nagged him or was overly friendly or clingyy, what is this why is he ignoring me after he was so into me?
ps. he was always acting so proper and gentlemen like because im so inexperienced but i know for a fact that he actually drinks and parties alot? also why did he pretend to not have this side of himself?
we are both educated/ goal oriented people who were looking for a long term relationship
Most Helpful Girl
Ok, I think he is very set on being polite to you and he's afraid of chasing you away by going too far, I obviously don't need to explain to you how Persian guys work, so you probably know that they can be intense. I'd say that he probably feels that you're intimidated by him. He was trying to be sweet when he said that you look kissable. Maybe he's seeing how you react and if you don't try to make contact with him then he figures that you don't want him anymore. I'd text him if you really like him that much.
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