So a guy just asked me out. Now there's about 2-3 problems. First off I have a specific type and he fits most of it there's just one big thing about him that bothers the living crap out of me. HE'S EXTREMELY SHY!! Ugh its annoying because our convos are like 2 seconds long and he's a dry texter. Another problem I'm still hungover my ex. We're sorta like friends with benefits now I mean I can go with whoever I want but I don't want anyone else I find it hard to look at anyone else. But right now I guess we're taking a break because we haven't texted in 5 days now. The last problem there's someone else who might like me who fits a whole lot better into the type I have then him. And I might consider going out with him then the one who just asked me out. This is like contradicting myself but the one who likes me and my ex are so much a like plus they're both cute. I don't know what to do. Should I say yeah and give it a try? Should I say no and stay hung on to my ex? Or should I say no and wait for the other guy?
P. S I don't want to hurt the shy guys feelings
- Say yesVote A
- Say no and hang on to my exVote B
- Say no and wait for the other guyVote C
Most Helpful Girl
dont date either, u need a break and to be completely single for a while... in my opinion u dont like the shy guy u are just matching him to ur standards. especially if u guys dont have much to talk about, do u realize how awkward it will be in the future when u guys actually are dating. and if u really want to move on to other guys, then u need to let ur ex go: never make an ex a friends with benefits! if u had feelings once, one of you are bound to have feelings again0