She has very strict parents and we snuck around for years almost the whole time we've known each other.. we got caught things ended reaLly badly. she pretty much had a mental break down When it all happened and her parents caught us together.
Didn't talk to her for months we got back in contact by running in to each other. We made plans to move out she agreed. She talked about it a lot seemed excited. She bailed out last minute And ended things completley. Called me the next day hysterically crying asking if we can still make it work. Then decided to just go no contact.
I don't know if I should take this personally it really broke my heart. We had a lot of fights because of the distance when we rekindled some jealousy on my side. Some passive aggressiveness on hers. I let me emotions get the best of me though during the breakup. She saw me at first trying to convince her.. pissed off at mixed signals.. then sad saying I Miss you are we done?
It's been no contact for a month now. Her mom did threaten to drop her school and everything completley cut her from her life. What would you choose? Should I take this personally?
She constantly told me only I make her happy she doesn't want anyone else. before the breakup she said I don't know what to do make the choice for me.. I told her she has to do it on her own.
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Yeah, you are right, it's HER choice, but think of it this way: If she really loved you, would she give up everything just to be with you?
Sometimes, girls or even women don't know what they want.
And this can be really confusing, i understand you feel bad, and i feel she is feeling bad as well, but that doesn't stop her from thinking of you. If you ask me, i think her parents prevented her from being with you.
Because strict parents always try to protect their children. Always..0
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