So there is this guy who I thought was cute. We have seen each other at parties and have not spoken before. He recently has messaged me on fb asking for a date. I agreed. He has giving me a lot of compliments and messages me a lot how muchh I make him smile. Kinda seems creepy to me. Almost like he tells me too much. I feel like if s guy is too upfront and fast that it probably means what they want is the same thing. If you know what I mean.
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Eh... Hard to say. On the one hand, great guys (*caugh*, ME, *caugh*) have been turned down just for making the mistake of coming on too strong. Some guys are great at being in a relationship, but really awkward and terrible at the pre-relationship dating game.
It can be hard to judge what a girl's expectations for speed and timing are, because everyone is different and society/media shows so many vastly different examples (relationships sometimes happen over a 90 minute movie, and othetimes over a 9 season sit-com)
Give him a chance, and see if he's weird in general. If it turns out that his speed, timing, and frequency are the only issues, just tell him you want to reset the pacing of the whole thing.2
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