My boyfriend's friend is tall, handsome, and confident. I was tipsy and he and I hooked up once at a house party. I fell for him on an emotional and spiritual level. He feels the same way. We have a lot of things in common--he's so interesting. He's funny, fun, and everything. We hanged out a few times days after the party. He's tall, strong, and I feel protected. We call and text each other a lot. We never run out of things to say to each other. He says, he is getting out of a relationship for me and wants us to be together. My boyfriend is on a Costa Rica trip with his family... I feel that my boyfriend's friend is my other half. He's so confident, trust worthy, and can't keep my eyes off of him like bradly cooper.
What should I do?
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1) he is NOT your boyfriend's friend if you hooked up with him. Now lets clarify because for some reason girls under 18 seem to think 'hooked up' can mean they just kissed or giggled at his joke. "hooked up' means sex. he screwed you or you sucked him off, whatever.
2) if your "boyfriend" finds out your a cheating whore he is going to dump you. If he finds out you were a cheating whore with his "best friend", that is the end of the friendship.
So the first thing is, before you go screwing anyone else do the right thing and end the relationship your in. other then physical abuse being a disgusting cheater is the worse thing you can do in a relationship. I feel sorry for the next guy. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
At this point it comes down to if the boyfriend will ever find out. if they want to stay friends that can never happen. If he chooses you over this so called "friend" then that is it. He is not a 'friend' because a friend would never do that with a 'friends' woman. so he is a piece of shit. and the person that helps a woman cheat is worse the the cheating whore.
you both deserve yourself. how will you ever trust each other since you both cheated on someone you were supposed to care about. so if you care about each other... which one of you will be the first to cheat next3