my boyfriend and i live 30min. Away from each other and we only see each other 3 times a week. When he is not with me he don't text me and always seen busy... he doesn't ask me to come over more than the 3 days... i wonder if he is cheating on me?
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3 days is a lot to be seeing someone until you move in together... I only see my girl who lives fairly far away on the weekends, maybe once in the week as well, but only for a few hours.
We both live busy lives and I am thankful we both think we are worth squeezing in to each others lives. To be honest though, I have dated girls who think my life should revolve around her otherwise I don't care and I usually end up leaving because I get annoyed/I just want my life, once we move in together THEN you are important enough for my life to revolve around you, and even then.
I once dated a girl I was working with at my night job, which was her only job. I also had a day job, so I was working from 8am-10pm 5 days a week. She would get annoyed when I did not want her to come home with me or me to hers. Guess what? I am TIRED and want to rest, or maybe just play a game or be alone since I work with people all day lol
I would not take it so personally, and def not assume he is cheating...1