So my girlfriend is a theater major at a different college then me. She told me she is volunteering with a theater group to be part of a play/performance that will be performed in May.
At first I thought that was nice, but then she told me about the play. It is a modified version of 'the full monty'... essentially it is a play about male strippers and their lives.
For a good portion of the play the male actors are in nothing more then skimpy boxer-briefs or revealing jock straps. For a small part of the play the male actors are actually fully nude.
Obviously being female she would remain fully clothed the whole time, but I told her I was not really comfortable with her being part of the play and being on stage with her male counterparts being nude or in skimpy underwear.
She told me that seeing the guys nude is just a part of the play and it won't effect our relationship and she still wants to do it.
What do you think? I really don't feel comfortable with her seeing about a dozen guys she goes to school with completely nude and in reveling jock straps. Most girls don't want their guys going to strip clubs and seeing girls nude, so I feel like this is sort of the same thing. But at the same time I feel bad asking her not to do it. Should I tell her again I'm not comfortable with it or just let her do it?
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First of all, this is nothing like strip clubs. She is doing this to further herself in what she loves doing. If she thinks it's a great opportunity, then you should support her. Seeing a guy nude does not make a women want them... penis's aren't the most attractive thing in the world.. just saying. Men go to strip clubs because they choose to and it turns them on.. this is not the same at all. If I were her and u didn't support me on it, i'd be pissed.0
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